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How To Deal With Death Living a Life Set Free
Not any one finds it simple to resume life after the death of a mate, sister, brother, parent, spouse or child. Each brings its own hurt and discomfort and difficulty in discovering how to deal with death. The power of the loss will change tremendously. My emotions after the loss of a best buddy were different from the loss of my elders and those losses were noticeably different than the death of my better half.
I was with my number one friend only a few hours before he died. I can remember him pulling at the sheets and being really perturbed. I sat beside him and held him for a long time while attempting to provide comfort to my friend and friendship to his wife. It was difficult for her to witness her man struggling and to grasp the end was near.
Sitting and staying with my mom in the hospital during her last 5 days and nights was quite a different experience. I recall looking at her countless times to work out if she was still breathing. She was ready to go home to heaven; and that helped each of us who liked her. Nevertheless, watching your ma struggle to breathe during her last hours is never simple.
My father, a wonderful 86 year old man who had lived a full life, died 6 years later with lung issues. He was also completely ready to go home. He had missed my mother very over those last 6 years. I wished I had known then what I know today. We furnished him a good life but I failed to realize the hurt he was going through. The night he died, I was alone with him for the last 4 hours of his life. I held him in my arms during those last hours, just he and I. I was able to let him know what an incredible pop he'd been and how much I loved him. What a privilege to get to hold him and to hear the death rattle. It was so sweet because I knew where he was headed, to see his Jesus and to see the old lady.
I grew through these experiences yet, they did not prepare me for the biggest loss of my life. My previous spouse of 27 years was assessed with stage four cancer. Ten weeks later she also went home, just like my pal, the old lady and my pop. This experience, unlike the others, rocked me to my core. It is a story all its own. Some moments I could grin, but at times the grief was all consuming. I'd feel surrounded in a box; respiring, simply surviving was all I could manage. It was like I could only take one step at a time. It was during this experience that God began to mold, form, and change me beyond anything I might have imagined. He was preparing me to accomplish His work thru my life.
I encourage you to take advantage of our complimentary gift, “God’s Answer?” It will demonstrate to you a power to not only live life, but also a power to change your life, beyond your wildest imagination.
Burton Rager writer of “Living Life Set Free” and “God’s Answer?” Click to learn how to deal with death and receive a complimentary copy of “God’s Answer?”
Katie Gray- Set Free ~lyrics~
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